In addition to affecting the lives of those who are ill, illnesses may also profoundly affect the spouses or partners who care for those who are ill. Anxiety and depression may increase as caregivers adjust to new realities and expectations. On the other hand, intimacy and closeness may increase as partners solidify their relationships in the face of illness. Though every relationship is unique, there are some trends that can be seen across relationships when, for instance, in a heterosexual relationship the man is the caregiver, and alternatively when the women is the caregiver. Lesbian relationships, too, are impacted when one partner is ill, sometimes in similar patterns to heterosexual relationships, and sometimes in different ways.
To prepare for this Discussion, consider how illness might affect a life partner relationship under these different relationship configurations.
With these thoughts in mind:
Discussion Question: an explanation of the most significant way illness may affect a heterosexual relationship when the male partner is ill and, alternatively, when the female partner is ill and why. Then explain the extent to which these effects may be the same or different for a female same-sex relationship and why. Be specific and provide examples. Use the Learning Resources and other current literature to support your response.
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· Wenger, N. K. (1998). Coronary heart disease in women: Evolution of our knowledge. In K. Orth-Gomer, M. Chesney, and N. K. Wenger (Eds.), Women, stress, and heart disease (pp. 1–15). Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum.
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